Sunday, April 28, 2013

Listening back to Easter

We enjoyed going to "The Little Cottage" in Ocean City, MD from Good Friday through Easter Sunday this year. I really like going away for holidays. It makes it more, well, like a holiday! :)

Tie-dyed eggs. Pretty cool.


The final products. There are a few decoupage eggs in here, too. We couldn't do the traditional version because "The Little Cottage" had no vinegar on hand. I'd forgotten that vinegar is a vital ingredient.

Eating ice cream out of the fancy sundae glasses was a real hit. The best part was that, because we were only there two days, the ice cream we bought HAD to be eaten in those two days. We were all pretty much in heaven.

In looking at this picture again, it is difficult to discern whether the spoon (and I can tell you it IS a spoon) has it's handle in Evelyn's mouth or part of it up her nose. I believe it is the former. 
We attended an Easter service at a church near the ferry to the NJ shore. I've come late in life to enjoy  visiting other churches. As a kid I hated going to other churches. I especially hated the churches where all the kids had to go forward to sit at the pastor's feet for a kiddie Bible story. I hated going to strange Sunday School classes. Fortunately we did this very little. My parents were good at "having our own church service" on vacation. 

Our kids are not like this yet, and I am so thankful. They just go in and take the experience as it comes. And, as so many churches we've visited seem to include some sort of refreshment, the experiences have been particularly well-received.

With shame I admit, as an adult, wasting perfectly good worship time at other churches picking apart music, sermons, or even decor. While not every visit to every church is a blissful worship experience, I have learned that God always communicating to me, even if it is that simple reminder to "be still..."

So our Easter Sunday was good. I loved that we went to church, even if it was unfamiliar. God was present. And I was blissfully aware of Him.

And at the end of the service, the lady sitting next to Evelyn said to her, "Honey, I have to show you something." She pulled out her phone, then pointed at Evelyn's newest favorite thrift store stuffed animal, Snowy Owl, who'd attended the service with us. "That owl's face looks EXACTLY like my dog!" She showed us the picture, and sure enough, there was quite a resemblance. "All through the service I kept seeing your owl out of the corner of my eye and thinking it was my dog!"

God is in all these things. I love how Frederick Buechner expresses this in his first memoir, The Sacred Journey, which I got for Christmas and devoured:

Listen. Your life is happening. You are happening....

The question is not whether the things that happen to you are chance things or God's things because, of course, they are both at once. There is no chance thing through which God cannot speak--even the walk from the house to the garage that you have walked ten thousand times before, even the moments when you cannot believe there is a God who speaks at all anywhere. He speaks, I believe, and the words he speaks are incarnate in the flesh and blood of our selves and of our own footsore and sacred journeys.

We cannot live our lives constantly looking back...but to live without listening at all is to live deaf to the fullness of the music. Sometimes we avoid listening for fear of what we may hear, sometimes for fear that we may hear nothing at all but the empty rattle of our own feet on the pavement. But..."be not afraid, for lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world." He says he is with us on our journeys. He says he has been with us since each of our journeys began. Listen for him. Listen to the sweet and bitter airs of your present and your past for the sound of him.


Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Wishes

Tonight in the car:

Amelia: "Every time I'm in the car...or on a trip...or at school...or going ANYWHERE, I always wish. I wish the same thing. I wish it every single time. I wish it with all my heart!"

Evelyn: "What's your wish?"

Amelia: "That there will be a unicorn in the backyard when we get home."

Conversations on the Commute

Today on the drive to school, Alan said the girls were debating whether Jesus died on a CROSS or a TREE. Amelia had heard a song at church that said it was a tree, and this caused some discussion.

Alan brought closure by asking, "What do you think a cross is made of?"

"A tree."


Monday, April 22, 2013

Amelia's Plans

Amelia wants her own room. So we're thinking maybe of making the library into her bedroom this summer. She LOVES this idea, and keeps dreaming about what kind of decor she's going to choose. She's gone back and forth between having a "horse" room and some kind of girly room that I cannot recall.

Tonight she said she'd FINALLY decided. "Since the walls in the library are kind of reddish already, I want it to be a  JESUS ROOM." She was all smiles as she described it, "The walls will be like the Red Sea, parting around me. And I can have Jesus pictures and Jesus sheets--it will be perfect!"

I didn't have the heart to tell her she'd mixed the Old and New Testaments, but someday maybe she'll appreciate Moses as a type of Christ. :)

Life These Days

Several weeks ago at The Book Thing, the girls scored about 30 Boxcar Children books. They are little mysteries--adventures had by these four siblings who are orphaned (seems the best recipe for a good children's adventure is to remove the parents--have you ever noticed the glut of orphaned children stories? But I digress...) So I love that they are enjoying reading. In our bed:

In one of their Secret Hideouts:

I used to dream about having a house that looked like it could be in a magazine. Now I just hope that, when our girls think back on their childhood, they can appreciate that I spent so little time trying to make our house look like it could be a magazine.

We're totally into collections. These were from a local playground:

I have to remember to bring BAGS to the playground. Our pockets were ripping at the seams. (The rocks are sorted by color, I think.)

I was working at one end of the dining room table and suddenly thought, "From this perspective, the house looks so tidy!" So I took a picture. One quarter turn to the right would have revealed the kitchen...best left to the imagination. And yes, those are Christmas cards. I decidedI am going to leave them up until I write a nice note of thanks to all the people who were kind enough to send them. That is why it is late April and they are still there.

Evie lounging on our favorite piece of custom furniture: the wonderful bench Dad Blackman made to house Alan's music equipment. Made to fit under the entryway window, it was moved into the dining room when we got our Christmas tree. But it looks so GOOD in the dining room, it has stayed. (Kind of keeps the Christmas cards company!)

On Thursdays the girls have piano lessons about a mile away. So 75% of the time we walk--using our almost-too-small-for-them Burley stroller. They take turns riding. Like their thrift store animal print coats? We're in a phase.

Speaking of phases--here is Amelia on her crutches. I still think it was brilliant of Alan to buy them for her. It has drastically reduced the number of times she "hurts" herself to allow her the freedom to pretend to have a broken leg.

More collections. This is Evelyn from our Easter beach trip collecting pine cones. We brought them all home in a bag. And another bag full of sea shells. Love the nature collections.

That's life these days! It's good. :)

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Amelia's night cap

She's wearing it for the third night in a row. It's absolutely adorable, but she refuses to let me take a picture of her wearing it. Or a picture of her wearing her bonnet to school in the morning (which she pairs with a fuzzy pink bolero vest. Over her uniform.)

Monday, April 15, 2013

Amelia's to-do list



I have no witty captions that do that list justice. It stands perfectly on its own.

Speaking of Amelia, I wish I had pics of her recent outfits. Yesterday to church she wore a pink satin and lace dress (probably from the 80's) that we found at a thrift store. She paired it with a pink knitted shawl, a blue bonnet, and sparkly red shoes (a la Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz.) She said she was trying "to dress like Meg from Little Women." Today she had Alan text me to remind me to raid the prop & costume closet at my school for "fancy white gloves," which I did. She was quite thrilled.

On Saturday she wore a multi-colored t-shirt with a pink floral skirt and brightly-colored, striped socks that were pulled up over her knees (rather Pippi Longstocking.)

When I was raiding the prop/costume closet at work, I found a cap that looked rather like the night caps Laura & Mary Ingalls wear in the "Little House" TV episodes. It had exactly the effect I'd hoped. :)

Friday, April 12, 2013

OC NJ

The Bisset/Blackman family managed to get away for three days to Ocean City, NJ over Spring Break.

It's not easy to coordinate vacations when your family has a church organist (no Sundays away), youth camp director (no summers away), teachers (rare school year getaways), and kids in two different school districts (which can have different days off.)

So this was something to celebrate! We all headed out there after church on Easter Sunday. And took a long walk on the boardwalk that night. Anna & Evelyn enjoyed their roles as eldest cousins.

We walked on the boardwalk the next day, too! Here's Aidan:

Thanks to my Grandma Lucille Evelyn and a whole summer spent with my arms up over my head practicing on myself, I'm a pretty good French-braider.

Pretty girls with pretty hair.

Amelia and Aidan started and finished our days together--together. And they were together in the middle, too. Amelia said, "Aidan and I are so much alike! We're almost identifiable twins!"

Lots of walks. Some arcade fun. Flying kites. Breakfast out. And lots of good memories.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

What a difference a few weeks makes!

Two weeks ago was the first day of the girls' spring break. Gotta love it when it snows on the first day of spring break!

This week the girls sat on the front porch to do their homework. Because it was cooler out there. (I can't believe how Evelyn looks like a girl. I mean, not a little child--a young girl.Wow.)

Two weeks ago Amelia built a snowman. A sideways snowman attached to the fence behind a dumpster. (Such is city life!)

This week she sipped smoothies on the front porch in the warm breeze.

Two weeks ago the girls found shelter from the snow under the Japanese Maple tree in front of our house. The snow was so thick on the tree that you couldn't see them if you weren't under it with them.

Today they reveled in the daffodils at the Cylburn Arboretum. (This is just the loveliest place! It's free and quiet and full of beautiful gardens and a great after-school destination.)

The front of our house two weeks ago. (See the Japanese Maple on the right? I think the girls might be under it in the picture. But you'd never know.)

The front of our house today. The trees are just days away from bursting into big pink puffs in our front yard!


Monday, April 8, 2013

Reasons to go to the MD Science Center

(Or at least the reasons WE go.)

The hurricane machine. Granted, it costs an extra $2, but I love how the increasing windspeed ramps up the enthusiasm. 

And apparently the railing is one of the best rides in town.